Let’s have a real conversation about something most of us have felt: waiting to feel like "that woman"—the confident one, the financially free one, the one who walks into a room and knows she belongs there. We think we need the success first, the money first, the recognition first…
but what I've come to learn, is that way of thinking doesn't have to last.
The truth is, wealth starts in the mind, in the heart, and in the way you carry yourself long
before it shows up in your bank account.
Becoming the woman who already knows what it feels like to live in overflow. The woman who partners with God, listens to that inner nudge, and moves like her future is already unfolding.
So what does it look like to think
like a wealthy woman?
She's grateful. She’s grounded. She’s clear. She leads with vision. She honors her time. She takes bold action and rests when she needs to—without guilt. And most importantly? She already believes she’s worthy. Because she knows her identity doesn’t come from her paycheck it comes from her Creator... the very thing that gives you life.
Make Your Environment Match the Energy
This doesn’t mean you have to spend a ton of money. It means be intentional. Organize your space. Add beauty where you can. Light a candle, play music that raises your vibe, write affirmations that remind you of what’s already true. Your surroundings shape how you show up.
Start Saying No Like You Mean It
Wealthy women protect their peace. They don’t say yes to everything. They don’t explain themselves. They say no with love and move on.
You’re allowed to do the same.
Speak Life Over Yourself
Seriously. Out loud. Daily. This isn’t fake-it-til-you-make-it. This is remember who you are and who God called you to be. Your words create your world.
Feel Her Energy
Close your eyes and picture her. How does she start her day? What does she believe about herself? How does she walk into the room? Journal it out. Sit with it. Let yourself feel her in your body, in your spirit. That version of you already exists.
Make Choices She’d Make
Would she people-please? Would she stay small just to keep others comfortable? Would she invest in her healing, her growth, her mission? Probably. So start now. Show up like her in the small choices: how you speak, what you say yes or no to, how you manage your time and energy.
Get in the Presence of God—Often
Your future self is deeply aligned with Source. She’s not hustling for worthiness. She’s co-creating. She’s led by peace, not pressure. The more time you spend in prayer, journaling, worship, or stillness, the easier it is to tune into that version of you who’s walking in full trust.
You don’t become "her" by waiting for things to happen. You become her by deciding to live like she already exists—because she does. God put those dreams, that vision, that fire
inside of you for a reason. Now it’s your job to steward it.
You’re not too late. You’re not behind. And you don’t have to hustle for what’s already yours.
You just have to align with her.
Your future self is already watching you, cheering you on, and waiting for you to catch up to what’s been yours all along.
So go ahead—think like her.
Speak like her. Move like her.
She’s already in you.
It’s time the world saw her too.