Let’s talk about something that so many of us wrestle with—but rarely admit out loud: second-guessing ourselves. Overthinking every move. Playing out a hundred scenarios in our head
before making a single decision. Sound familiar?
If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in the loop of self-doubt, just know—you are not alone. But also know this: You were never meant to live in a state of hesitation. God didn’t place bold dreams in your heart just for you to water them down with worry. He placed them there because He knew you were capable, equipped,
and already chosen.
Here, we’re about more than dreaming big. We’re about becoming the kind of woman who trusts her own voice. Who makes spirit-led decisions and doesn’t apologize for the boldness of her vision. This kind of self-trust doesn’t come from having it all figured out—it comes from a deep knowing that you are divinely guided, always.
We’ve been conditioned to question our intuition. To defer to everyone else’s opinions. To believe that someone else always knows better. Add in past failures, childhood messaging, or fear of judgment, and suddenly even the smallest decisions feel overwhelming.
But here’s what’s true: self-trust is built, not born. It grows every time you listen to that quiet voice within and choose to believe it’s enough. That God speaks to you just as clearly as He speaks to anyone else. That your desires, your insights, and your instincts matter.
Bold decisions don’t mean careless or rushed. Bold means rooted. It means you’ve taken the time to connect with God, your inner wisdom, and what’s truly aligned with the life you’re creating.
When you learn how to trust yourself through the lens of faith, decision-making becomes less about being right and more about being real. You stop performing and start partnering—with God, with your truth, and with the version of
you that’s already walking in power.
So How Do You Strengthen Your Self -Trust Muscle?
1. Get Quiet Before You Get Answers
Create space to pray, journal, and tune in before you make a move. God’s guidance doesn’t usually shout.
It whispers.
2. Stop Outsourcing Your Confidence
You don’t need a committee to co-sign your calling. Start validating yourself before you seek validation from anyone else.
3. Reflect on What You’ve Already Overcome
Look back at the moments where you did make a tough call—and it led to growth. You’ve done hard things before. You can do them again.
4. Move with Faith, Not Fear
Fear keeps us stuck. Faith gets us moving. Choose progress over perfection and let your next step be your best teacher.
5. Practice Making Small Decisions Quickly
Self-trust is a muscle. Start with the small stuff and let your confidence grow naturally.
Here’s what I believe at the core of who I am: You already know what to do. You already know what’s yours. You already know the next step. It’s just been clouded by noise,
comparison, and fear...
But when you strip that all away and sit with your spirit—you’ll feel it. That steady nudge. That sense of peace. That whisper of, “This is it.”
When you start trusting yourself, you stop shrinking. You stop explaining. You stop delaying.
You begin moving in boldness. You start taking up space. You become a clearer channel
for God to move through.
That’s the work we do here at Million Makin Mama—not just teaching mindset, but building deep, lasting self-trust rooted in faith,
healing, and truth.
So the next time you’re about to overthink or backtrack—pause. Breathe. Remind yourself who you are and Whose you are.
You’ve got this. You’re ready. And the life you’re dreaming of? It’s waiting on you to decide.
Let’s be women who trust ourselves. Let’s be women who move boldly. Let’s be women who say yes—and don’t look back.